She is Bossy and I like it...

No box can define you......

I have a friend and she is very bossy! People hate her for it , well maybe hate is a strong word, but a lot of people, especially women take issue with it. However, I love her for it. You know exactly what she is thinking all the time. The best part is you can say to her, “Stop being so damn bossy”, and she does not take issue with it. She is brash, and yes often says the first thing that comes to her mind, but she is also one of the most caring and giving people that I know. She is being challenged to change her personality to fit into a corporate culture or rather into the image of what today’s woman should be (haha ..yes it is 2019 and we still have to follow some image in people’s mind). And while I understand that honey can catch the bee, I am telling her Don’t Do It! Don’t be like so many other women who are afraid to speak their mind, who are afraid in general to speak up! Again, I say..Don’t Do It. We need more women who are different, more women who are brave, but especially more who are themselves and not afraid to be so. So to my friend and the other Bossy women out there, BE BOSSY and Proud of it, and remember to sometimes use a little honey.